Zoo Siab
- 1. Lub suab nrov thiab hnov tsw ntxhiab
- 2. Tham ntau thiab tsis siv peb lub cev lus
- 3. Peb lub zog tsis zoo thiab thuam yam tsis muaj lawv paub tias yog vim li cas
- 4. Tsis muaj tus qauv
- 5. Tsom lawv hauv qhov muag, khaws lawv lub ntsej muag thiab muab lawv npog rau ntawm lub taub hau
- 6. Kev hnia thiab khawm puag
- 7. Tsis siv phau ntawv qhia zoo thiab taug kev nrawm
- 8. Hnav lawv tsis tsim nyog
- 9. Ntxuav lawv ntau zaus
- 10. Tau dhuav lossis tsis tuaj
Raws li hauv txhua qhov kev sib raug zoo, qhov twg muaj dev thiab tib neeg feem ntau nkag siab yuam kev, txawm hais tias qee tus ntawm lawv mus tsis pom. Qhov tseeb, kom zam dhau cov teeb meem no nrog koj tus phooj ywg ncaj ncees koj yuav tau npaj koj tus kheej rau ntau cov lus nug. Piv txwv li, koj yuav tsum paub tias cov menyuam dev xav li cas, qhov lawv xav tau tshaj plaws ntawm lub cev thiab lub hlwb yog dab tsi, thiab tseem paub dab tsi ua rau lawv chim siab.
Nrhiav hauv kab lus Tsiaj Tus Kws Tshaj Lij no 10 yam dev ntxub tib neeg thiab yog li koj yuav tuaj yeem txhim kho kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus menyuam dev, ua kom zoo dua ntawm ob qho kev sib raug zoo nrog kev ua tau zoo dua.
1. Lub suab nrov thiab hnov tsw ntxhiab
Lub tshuab ziab plaub hau, lub tshuab nqus tsev, tsheb, foob pob hluav taws, txham, hnoos lossis qee yam uas tawm ntawm koj txhais tes thiab ua suab nrov ntau, txhua lub suab nrov nrov cuam tshuam thiab ua rau dev ntshai. nws yog ib txwm, vim tias lawv muaj lub pob ntseg tshwj xeeb uas tso cai rau lawv hnov lub suab uas khiav tawm peb thiab, ntxiv rau, lawv kuj tseem muaj kev nkag siab txog kev co ntau dua li peb. Tau kawg, muaj cov dev uas tau tsa los ntawm cov menyuam dev nrog lub suab nrov nrov thiab tau siv rau nws, yog li lawv tsis txhob ntshai, tab sis qhov tseeb yog lawv feem ntau ntshai thiab ntxub cov suab nrov no.
Cov ntsiab lus ntawm qhov hnov ntxhiab kuj yog qhov teeb meem me me rau cov dev. Zoo li pob ntseg, nws qhov hnov tsw ntxhiab yog ntau txhiab npaug ntau dua li tib neeg. Yog li ntawd, txhua tus ntxhiab tsw uas koj xav tias muaj zog rau koj tus menyuam dev yuav tsis xis nyob. Nws yog qhov tseeb tias yog nws los rau qhov tsw ntawm cov khoom noj, nws tsis thab lawv ntau npaum li. Tab sis xav txog qhov hnov tsw ntxhiab ntawm tshuaj, tu tus kheej thiab tu tsev. Lawv yog cov ntxhiab tsw heev uas ua rau khaus qhov ntswg ntawm peb cov plaub, yog li lawv tuaj yeem txham yooj yim thiab khiav mus rau lwm qhov.
Peb yuav tsum sim tsis txhob ntshai peb tus dev nrog lub suab nrov thaum twg peb tuaj yeem zam nws lossis sim ua kom nws siv nws. Nws kuj tseem tsim nyog kom tsis txhob siv cov khoom lag luam uas muaj ntxhiab tsw zoo thaum muaj peb tus dev thiab ua pa rau thaj chaw kom zoo ua ntej nws nkag mus.
2. Tham ntau thiab tsis siv peb lub cev lus
Peb nquag tham nrog peb tus dev thiab qhov zoo, tab sis yog tias peb ua nws ntau dhau lossis thaum peb tham peb tsis siv lub ntsej muag thiab cov lus luv uas tus dev tuaj yeem kawm thiab cuam tshuam nrog qee yam, peb tsuas yog pissing tawm ntawm peb tus phooj ywg . Nws yuav tsis pom dab tsi peb hais thiab thaum kawg nws tau tshee hnyo. Lawv nyiam tias koj tham nrog lawv nrog koj lub cev lus thiab yog tias koj siv cov lus lossis suab nrov, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas lawv tsawg tsawg kom lawv tuaj yeem kawm thaum kawm thiab kawm los ntawm cov menyuam dev.
Nws yog qhov tseeb tias dev nkag siab qhov kev xav ntawm tib neeg, tab sis lawv ua li ntawd los ntawm lub cev lus thiab lub suab ntawm lub suab peb siv. Lawv yeej tsis nkag siab peb cov lus hais tiav, tsuas yog cov lus yooj yim uas peb qhia lawv. Yog li yog tias peb tham ntau thiab tsis siv lus cev nws tuaj yeem ua rau lawv tsis meej pem. Peb yuav tsum sim kawm tham nrog peb tus dev thiab sib tham nrog nws nrog peb lub cev. Ua qhov kev xeem, siv sijhawm ib hnub tsis hais ib lo lus rau nws. Tsuas yog piav tes piav taw, tsis txhob ua dhau nws, thiab sim sib txuas lus nrog nws los ntawm hom lus piav tes. Koj tuaj yeem siv qee lub suab, tab sis sim tsis hais ib lo lus thiab koj yuav pom tias koj tuaj yeem sib tham tau zoo thiab koj tus phooj ywg ncaj ncees tau so ntau.
3. Peb lub zog tsis zoo thiab thuam yam tsis muaj lawv paub tias yog vim li cas
Nws tuaj yeem tshwm sim tau tias thaum peb muaj kev xav tsis zoo lossis peb chim rau peb tus dev vim nws tau ua qee yam tsis raug, tias peb kis qhov tsis zoo no rau nws zoo li peb xav tau ib tus neeg. Raws li twb tau hais, dev lawv tsis nkag siab qhov peb qw rau lawv thiab feem ntau lawv tsis nkag siab vim li cas peb ua nws ib yam. Pom tseeb nws yog qee yam uas ua rau lawv ntau heev, lawv xav tias tsis zoo, lawv tau txais lub zog tsis zoo thiab lawv tsis paub yog vim li cas nws tshwm sim.
Peb yuav tsum kawm kom tsis txhob ua yuam kev ib zaug thaum thuam tus dev. Ib ntawm lawv yog ua nws yam tsis muaj peev xwm nkag siab vim li cas, vim nws tau ntev lawm thiab lwm qhov ua yuam kev yog ua kom txhoj puab heev. Muaj ntau txoj hauv kev muaj txiaj ntsig zoo uas yuav ua rau lawv nkag siab peb zoo dua.
4. Tsis muaj tus qauv
Cov dev nyiam muaj qhov niaj hnub ua, txawm hais tias koj tuaj yeem sib txawv nws kom koj tsis txhob poob siab, thiab lawv nyiam kom muaj cov qauv zoo li lawv xav tias nyab xeeb thiab so ntau dua. Tus dev tsis muaj txheej txheem, yam tsis muaj kev qhia paub yam tsawg kawg nkaus, yuav dhau mus ua tus dev tsis zoo siab, vim nws yuav muaj kev tsis ntseeg siab thiab tsis nkag siab ob leeg nrog nws tsev neeg thiab nrog lwm tus dev lossis tsiaj. Tias yog vim li cas lwm yam uas lawv tsis nyiam yog tsis muaj tus qauv hauv koj tsev neeg.
Cov qauv no thiab kev kawm yuav tsum npog ntau yam, los ntawm leej twg coj pab pawg mus ncig xyuas thiab zaub mov, ntawm lwm yam. Txhawm rau ua qhov no, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj uas koj xub qhia koj tus kheej txog kev qhia kom raug rau koj tus menyuam dev.
5. Tsom lawv hauv qhov muag, khaws lawv lub ntsej muag thiab muab lawv npog rau ntawm lub taub hau
Cov dev yeej tsis nyiam ib yam dab tsi los saib hauv lawv lub qhov muag. Yog tias koj tau ua tiav nws, koj yuav tau pom tias lawv zam kev saib thaum peb ua, tab sis tej zaum koj tau hla dhau ib qho uas siv sijhawm saib ntev dua thiab txawm tias luag nyav. Kev sib cuag qhov muag ntev rau cov dev yog qhov sib tw, yog vim li cas yog tias lawv saib mus deb lawv dhau los ua neeg nyiam thiab ntawm qhov tod tes, yog tias lawv sawv ntsug thiab lwm tus txav mus deb, nws yuav yog tus tseem ceeb. Nws txaus ntshai ua qhov no rau cov dev peb tsis paub, lawv tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev txhoj puab heev. Nws yog ib yam hla koj ob lub qhov muag, lwm qhov yog kho koj qhov muag. Yog li ntawd sim tsis txhob cia koj lub qhov muag tsau ntawm tus dev.
Tsis tas li, lwm qhov uas peb nquag ua yog rub lawv lub ntsej muag thiab co thiab ntaus lawv taub hau. Qhov ntawd yog qhov yuam kev, lawv tsis nyiam nws heev. Thaum lawv nkag rau hauv koj lub ntsej muag lawv raug thaiv, lawv xav tias raug kaw, nco qab tias nws yog ib yam uas lawv tsis ua. Cov kais dej ntawm lub taub hau tsis xis nyob thiab tuaj yeem tsim kev puas tsuaj rau lawv. Thaum koj tso koj txhais tes rau lawv, lawv pom tias nws yog ib yam tseem ceeb, yog tias koj tseem tuav lawv ntawm lub taub hau, lawv tau nyob tsis tswm. Cov no yog tes taw uas rau peb ib txwm muaj, tab sis rau lawv lawv muaj lub ntsiab lus sib txawv, yog li peb yuav tsum sim tsis txhob ua. Yog tias koj xav mus ze thiab tos txais tus dev, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom txav mus los me ntsis ntawm sab, yam tsis tau saib nws tas li thiab nthuav koj txhais tes me ntsis, tso cai rau nws kom hnov ntxhiab thiab paub koj, sai li sai tau thaum koj lees txais nws, koj tuaj yeem ua tau hnia nws.
6. Kev hnia thiab khawm puag
Muaj ntau yam uas rau peb ib txwm muaj thiab peb nyiam ua, piv txwv li, co, puag thiab hnia peb cov neeg loj heev, tab sis lawv tsis txhais txhua yam zoo li peb. Ntawm cov dev lawv tsis khawm lossis hnia zoo li peb ua. Rau lawv, qhov tseeb uas peb niaj hnub hnia thiab puag lawv ua rau cov neeg tsis meej pem.
Ntawm qhov one tes, nrog puag lawv raug thaiv thiab rau lawv muab koj lub paws tso rau lwm qhov txhais tau tias koj xav tsim kom muaj koj tus thawj, yuav pom nws yog kev ua si rau qee yam. Txawm hais tias muaj cov menyuam ntxim hlub thiab nyiam mloog uas lees txais puag, feem ntau ntawm lawv tsis zam nws zoo heev. Ntawm qhov tod tes, peb hnia zoo li lawv licks thiab lawv yaim rau lwm qhov laj thawj, ib qho ntawm lawv yog thaum lawv xav qhia kev xa tawm, yog li qee zaum thaum peb hnia lawv lawv tuaj yeem nkag siab tias peb ua raws. Raws li xws li, peb tab tom xa tawm cov cim sib xyaw thiab qhov no ua rau tus dev tsis ruaj khov thiab ua rau nws tsis xis nyob.
7. Tsis siv phau ntawv qhia zoo thiab taug kev nrawm
Ntau zaus muaj ntau yam peb ua tsis raug thaum peb taug peb tus dev, tab sis peb yuav tsum kawm kho qhov no yog tias peb xav kom txaus siab rau kev taug kev thiab tsis ua rau peb tus dev zoo siab. Qee zaum peb khaws cov hlua nruj, peb tas li rub, peb tsis pub nws hnov nws ib puag ncig, thiab lwm yam. Qee zaum peb tseem taug kev li ob peb feeb thiab peb tau nyam mus rau qhov chaw lossis ua kom tiav qhov ncig saib.
Tsis siv cov hlua zoo thiab raug daig thaum mus ncig nws yog ib yam uas peb tus dev tsis pom lom zem heev. Koj xav tau sijhawm ntau los tshawb nrhiav koj ib puag ncig thiab cuam tshuam nrog lwm tus. Koj yuav xav hnia, nres thiab ua koj tus kheej thiab ua si nrog lwm tus, uas yog ib txwm muaj. Peb yuav tsum paub txog peb tus dev cov kev xav tau yooj yim thiab kawm siv cov hlau lead zoo thiab taug kev ntsiag to uas nws tuaj yeem muaj kev lom zem.
8. Hnav lawv tsis tsim nyog
Tau kawg, yog tias nws txias dhau lossis peb xav tau npog qee qhov ntawm peb tus dev lub cev rau qhov txhab lossis teeb meem, koj tuaj yeem hnav nws nrog lub tsho loj lossis khaub ncaws tshwj xeeb rau lawv, suav nrog khau tshwj xeeb, uas yog qhov zoo thiab qee zaum nws tau pom zoo. Dab tsi peb cov phooj ywg me tsis tuaj yeem sawv, yam tsawg kawg ntawm lawv, yog tias koj hnav lawv tsuas yog rau nws lossis nrog yam uas yooj yim zoo nkauj thiab tsis yog txhua txoj haujlwm. Lawv tsis xis nyob yog tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem taug kev zoo lossis yog tias lawv muaj qee yam uas lawv tshem tsis tau thaum twg lawv xav tau. Qee tus dev kawm paub zam qhov no, tab sis ntau tus tsis nkag siab tias yog vim li cas qee tus neeg yuav hnav lawv hauv cov khoom no, lawv txawm xav tias lwm tus dev tsis ua rau lawv, qee yam zoo ib yam tab sis nws ua rau lawv tsis quav ntsej thiab yog li ntawd lub sijhawm tsis xis nyob.
Nco ntsoov tias koj tus dev tsis yog tib neeg, sim tsis txhob ua tib neeg li qhov no tsuas yog ua rau muaj qhov tsis sib xws thiab teeb meem. Hnav nws yog tias koj yuav tsum tau tiag tiag.
9. Ntxuav lawv ntau zaus
Nws yog qhov ib txwm rau peb da dej txhua hnub, rau cov dev nws tsis zoo li ntawd. Lawv khaws lawv tus kheej kom huv hauv lawv tus kheej txoj kev, lawv xav tau koj lub cev tsw ntxhiab los tham nrog lwm tus. Yog li yog tias peb ntxuav lawv ntau zaus peb tsis ua rau lawv nyiam. Nws yog ib yam kom nws so ntau heev thiab koj ntxuav nws, zoo ib yam los da dej tas li nrog cov tshuaj zawv plaub hau muaj zog. Cov dev tsis nyiam qhov no hlo li, lawv nyiam hnov lawv tus kheej thiab hnov ntxhiab ntawm cov khoom uas peb siv tuaj yeem ua rau lawv tsis xis nyob.
Nws yog lub tswv yim zoo los da dej tus dev tom tsev lossis tom tus kws tu plaub hau ib zaug, tab sis peb tsis tuaj yeem ua qhov no ntau zaus vim tias, ntxiv rau qhov xav tau koj tus ntxhiab tsw qab los tham, peb ua rau cov tawv nqaij tiv thaiv txheej txheej thiab kawg ua rau muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv. Peb tuaj yeem ntxuav lawv, tab sis tsis tas yuav ua ntau dhau.
10. Tau dhuav lossis tsis tuaj
Cov dev tsis tuaj yeem sawv tsis tau dhuav, lawv xav ua yam thiab qhia lawv lub sijhawm nrog koj. Yog li ntawd, lawv tsis nyiam dab tsi uas tsis muaj teeb meem rau lawv thiab hais tias nws yog boring. Pom tseeb lawv ntxub nws thaum koj nyob deb, lawv tsis paub tseeb tias koj yuav rov qab los yog yog koj yuav, yog li qhov kev xyiv fab loj uas lawv muaj thaum koj rov los txawm tias lawv tsuas yog ob peb feeb yam tsis tau pom dua koj. Tab sis qhov phem tshaj plaws rau lawv yog thaum lawv tib neeg tus khub tsis rov qab los. Qhov phem tshaj uas tuaj yeem tshwm sim rau lawv yog tias lawv tso nws tseg, lawv yuav tsis nkag siab tias yog vim li cas thiab nws raug nqi ntau heev kom txav mus yam tsis muaj nws tus tswv.
Tam sim no koj paub, tsis txhob dhuav thiab ua ntau yam nrog koj tus phooj ywg ncaj ncees, dua li, sim nyob deb kom tsawg li ntau tau, tab sis qhov tseem ceeb tshaj, tsis txhob tso nws tseg!
